‘You can’t’, they said

speak English, stay away from us

to the 10-year old

leave your head uncovered, you are a disgrace

to the 11-year old

live with your mother anymore, for a better future

to the 13- year old

continue studying, you are starting to question

to the 14-year old

knowledge is prohibited, you need to be married off

to the 15-year old

talk to boys, you need to be pure

to the 16-year old

get drunk, respect your teachers

to the 17-year old

fall in love, you don’t deserve it

to the 18-year old

trust anyone, i will make sure of it

to the 19-year old

live anymore, it’s not worth it

to the 20-year old

get a job, you are the wrong skin colour

to the 21-year old

be accepted here, because i have more power

to the 22-year old

complete this degree, because no one your skin color ever has

to the 23-year old

do your research here, you aren’t grateful enough

to the 24-year old

work and study full-time, the University is biased

to the 25-year old

have a safe home environment, too bad

to the 26-year old

speak up, no one wants to listen to you

to the 27-year old

don’t even try, hasn’t been done before

to the 28-year old

not want commitment, you are a woman

to the 29-year old

not want a baby, you are a woman

to the 30-year old

have time for yourself, you are a mother

to the 31-year old

ACT, you don’t have the right to

to the 32-year old

it didn’t work

‘you can’t’

they miscommunicated

she misunderstood

it became

a challenge to her

instead of their

control

command

coercion

they couldn’t understand

a simple fact:

she can’t can’t

she wont can’t

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